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pritchp

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Guys,

You don't have to read this and its not me seeking attention, i just need to get some things off my chest and out in the open... and well.. parents have gone away so im home alone.. not been out the house all weekend and i just need somewhere to just get things off my chest really.

- My job is so stressful, so many demands and targets.. its so unrealistic. im meant to be moving departments in a few months.. and they are bringing in 3 people to replace me.. so to me thats saying im currently doing 3 peoples amounts of work..but i dont get paid for that do i !? No!

-Interview for a job i really want soon.. very stressed about this, i will be gutted if i don't get it and i don't know what i will do if i don't get it.

- My current job is all dependent on exam grades.. not being big headed but im bloody good at my job.. but the exams..well not so much, don't get me wrong i am passing them.. but i have to do an AAT project and well, its just not going well.. its awaiting marking at the moment and i have till the end of this month to get it all submitted.. but this woman marker is useless and she has had it for over half a month now! its really stressing me out, i keep chasing etc and i get nothing back! if i fail it it will be because she didnt give it back to me in enough time to get it right! and if i fail it work can get rid of me just like that..and then what do i do!?

- my parents are away.. yes they go away ALOT but right now.. i really need them here just for support... i have no family nearby.. yes i have my friends to support me but i cant burden them will all my troubles etc.. and i dunno.. i just wish i had a bit more family support..

- my ex trying to kill herself has really got to me and it keeps playing on my mind and it sucks alot.. the fact she blames me for it was/is horrid :(

- I find myself just laying in bed at night..mind racing about everything and how bad things can become... and i just find myself laying there... crying... it sounds soo pathetic i know.. i just dont know what to do...

coming on here and pouring all this out is probs a bad idea but i just need to write things down/tell someone.. i need to get it off my chest

i really dont know what to do/say
 
Fella if you need anything call me my numbers on facebook.

I'm not able to help with everything but I'm sure if ya need someone impartial or just to get out house for a drink give me a call.

I work two jobs one which can be stressful an best way I get over incidents which effect me badly is by talking.

Whats the job your applying for an the interview...
 
Is yhe msp project the same still? I can send you the one I did a couple of years back. Anything you need or whatever mate gimme a shout. I was having right issues picking up pms earlier so sorry I wasnt much help then. With the aat... You can write your name so youll be fine. It really isnt very hard at all and you will.breeze it.

I feel for you (not to be confused with feeling you) and ive been here with the exams myself. Im not ashamed to.say I failed an aca exam through no fault but.my own after I broke up with my ex. And not done.anything about it till this week when someone perked me up.

Im sure everyone else here is gonna be just as nice :)

Much love x no ****
 
Thanks guys! I mean it, thanks for taking the time to offer support/ideas.

Thanks for the offer of the project but the whole aat syllabus has changed (changed this year! :( ).
 
Dude if you need to chat you know im only a phone away :) Or computer away!
 
Yeah our juniors are doing it now. Think they all used mine :lol:
 
same as karl bud i beleave you got my number give us a bell or what ever also a computer away ! x x
 
I know it's hard to talk sometimes but two or more minds make it alot easier.

My offers always there, and as your local I'm sure we can find a decent fast flowing road to distract you!!!
 
jra3d":1f3h7r5b said:
I know it's hard to talk sometimes but two or more minds make it alot easier.

My offers always there, and as your local I'm sure we can find a decent fast flowing road to distract you!!!

Thanks, you're so right. a problem shared is a problem halved.

I bet we could... out in the countryside around MK there are a fair few good ones.
 
Haha there sure are some good roads, I'll PM ya my number so you have it if you need it. Saves looking on FB
 
Wow! You seem to lead a very busy lifestyle. My advice would be to try and find some time to relax, it looks to me like you're under a lot of pressure to get the grades in order to keep your job/get a new job, etc.
If you're good at your current job, surely your bosses are hopefully decent enough to consider how great you are at your job rather than your grades - grades aren't everything after all, right? :)

As for the other thing about doing extra workloads at your workplace, if it's affecting you, you should discuss it with your senior line manager and tell them you need to concentrate on your exams? Maybe they can split your workload between you and a colleague or something.

Anyway. Try and have a couple of days break from everything and if you want to talk to me and get things off your chest, as it were, let me know and I'll send you my number or something..
 
pritchp":1fjrxptx said:
- My job is so stressful, so many demands and targets.. its so unrealistic. im meant to be moving departments in a few months.. and they are bringing in 3 people to replace me.. so to me thats saying im currently doing 3 peoples amounts of work..but i dont get paid for that do i !? No!
Rob, I know exactly how you feel, I've been in my job for nearly two years. I hate it. They overload me with work, they guilt trip me into doing over time I don't really want too, and for three months I was doing the job of four people. It is hard and it does seem like there is no light at the end of the tunnel there really is.

pritchp":1fjrxptx said:
-Interview for a job i really want soon.. very stressed about this, i will be gutted if i don't get it and i don't know what i will do if i don't get it.
don't let the pressure you are under distract you during any sort of interview process.. Use the hatred for the things you don't like about your life to make you realise how much you want this job!
pritchp":1fjrxptx said:
- My current job is all dependent on exam grades.. not being big headed but im bloody good at my job.. but the exams..well not so much, don't get me wrong i am passing them.. but i have to do an AAT project and well, its just not going well.. its awaiting marking at the moment and i have till the end of this month to get it all submitted.. but this woman marker is useless and she has had it for over half a month now! its really stressing me out, i keep chasing etc and i get nothing back! if i fail it it will be because she didnt give it back to me in enough time to get it right! and if i fail it work can get rid of me just like that..and then what do i do!?
exams and deadlines are horrible. I've been out of education for nearly three years, did well at school - but took the wrong subject at the wrong college and came out with great results, but nothing to use them against! I'm now going to uni in September to study something I love. There is always another option, you just might not see it at the time! Don't panic about it!
pritchp":1fjrxptx said:
- my ex trying to kill herself has really got to me and it keeps playing on my mind and it sucks alot.. the fact she blames me for it was/is horrid :(
she's an ex for a reason. There will have been a reason you broke up with each other.. Plenty more fish in the sea and all that.. ;-)

pritchp":1fjrxptx said:
- I find myself just laying in bed at night..mind racing about everything and how bad things can become... and i just find myself laying there... crying... it sounds soo pathetic i know.. i just dont know what to do...
having a cry is a good thing! It gives you chance to let your emotions out ;-) plus doing it in bed at night means other people won't see it :) (not that we think your any less of a man for crying ;-))

pritchp":1fjrxptx said:
coming on here and pouring all this out is probs a bad idea but i just need to write things down/tell someone.. i need to get it off my chest
at least you've let it out, if your parents are away then you need to talk to someone, and there are plenty of people on here who like you enough to reply :lol:

pritchp":1fjrxptx said:
i really dont know what to do/say
you've said what you needed too ;-)

Give me a pm if you need too ;-) things get bad for me sometimes too, but just take one thing life throws at you at a time, youll get there eventually :)

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Morning guys,

Feeling a bit better today thank you!

Thanks again for all your kind words.
 
I'm feel stressed at the mo they want 13 drivers mad redundant at my garage :( there gonna look at records I'm on a final for sick
 
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