In need of advice

[Dubz]

This is going to be another need help with a girl posts.


Right well me and this girl have been talking rather frequently for a few months now. We've known each other for about 4-5 years and over this time we both admit to liking each other but failing to do anything about it. Recently when we've been talking it's been getting a lot more flirtier so I guessed that those feelings she used to have for me are coming back. So today I asked her out (over the phone as I couldn't wait until monday to ask her) and she'd just told me she didn't have any plans at all for the weekend so I asked if she wanted to go out for coffee or lunch but then made up that she might be going out shopping with her mum but she doesn't know yet.

So now my heads in a mess. She's not the girl that would be easy to move on from as I've liked her for a long time now even when I've been going out with other girls I've still liked her.

When I'm around other girls I have confidence but as soon as I talk to this girl I have none.

I think that's all and that it makes sense. The more advice the better as my close friends don't really have much relationship skills considering none of them have had proper relationships

 

[Araf]

Not necessarily made up. I wouldn't call going shopping with my mum the highlight of a weekend either - but then I'm 47.

 

[Chicken]

I doubt she's going shopping both days all day so just ask her when's she's free as you'd like to take her out. Then take it from there.

 

[tommy89]

Just give her the weekend, she probably just is thinking it through.

Your situation sounds similar to mine. I was best friends with a girl from year 8 then it all got flirty etc in collage... We had about a year of both knowing but not doing anything about it.

Anyhu, now we're engaged (would be married but JEEES its expensive) so there is no need to worry about her reaction, just wait for her move.

 

[weebob]

Take it easy and try not to think too deeply about it.







Most importantly..... have a SMASH ing good time. enjoy HER company and she will enjoy yours BACK. Remember to open DOORS for her and let her IN first.

 

[Chicken]

Most importantly..... Smash her back doors in

Don't rush things. Also don't tell her about this place as she could read this thread :lol:

 

[maggi200]

How old is dubz ?

 

[weebob]

Most importantly..... Smash her back doors in

Don't rush things. Also don't tell her about this place as she could read this thread :lol:

Crafty edit above

 

[weebob]

How old is dubz ?

My stalking abilities say 18

 

[Dubz]

Yeah 18. I may have been a little bit drunk last night but my thoughts are still the same about it all.

I'm thinking carry on as normal as ask her out face to face rather via the phone in a week or so

 

[Chicken]

Most importantly..... Smash her back doors in

Don't rush things. Also don't tell her about this place as she could read this thread :lol:

Crafty edit above

what?

 

[weebob]

Most importantly..... Smash her back doors in

Don't rush things. Also don't tell her about this place as she could read this thread :lol:

Crafty edit above

what?

I Edited my post

 

[Chicken]

you sneaky bugger

 

[jra3d]

Take things as they come fella. You have sowed the seeds that your interested.

An now it's a waiting game, don't think too hard over it and just go with what feels right. I've had a few relationships good bad and well unmentionable.

Don't rush things, she may be shopping one day and may want to ease into things, so wait a little but dont be a push over.

 

[Dubz]

Drunk chris/dubz is back.

There's more to the story. When I was at one of my friends 18th the girl I like and one of my best mates who knew I liked her. Well I can't post it on here. But she then expected to be making out with him everytime they met up which was when we went out together (me,her and some of my friends) so they made out and it happened a couple of times. I told my friend how pissed I was. He understood but it still happened a few times afterwards.

Now she's said to my faceish (via text) that she likes my friend more than me. I'm pissed off big time as he doesn't like her and just did it for fun.

I'm seriously pissed off now.

 

[Gareth]

Shag her best mate!! And make sure she swallows!!

 

[weebob]

Shag her best mate!! And make sure she swallows!!

Lol, welcome to the thread Gareth....



... you forgot to add "get pix"

 

[Chicken]

Oh dear. This threads going down hill....

 

[weebob]

Drunk chris/dubz is back.

There's more to the story. When I was at one of my friends 18th the girl I like and one of my best mates who knew I liked her. Well I can't post it on here. But she then expected to be making out with him everytime they met up which was when we went out together (me,her and some of my friends) so they made out and it happened a couple of times. I told my friend how pissed I was. He understood but it still happened a few times afterwards.

Now she's said to my faceish (via text) that she likes my friend more than me. I'm pissed off big time as he doesn't like her and just did it for fun.

I'm seriously pissed off now.

Very ****** of your mate dude. only thing you can do fella is leave them at it I suppose. Rough times but there is always someone around the corner mate.

 

[Chicken]

Drunk chris/dubz is back.

There's more to the story. When I was at one of my friends 18th the girl I like and one of my best mates who knew I liked her. Well I can't post it on here. But she then expected to be making out with him everytime they met up which was when we went out together (me,her and some of my friends) so they made out and it happened a couple of times. I told my friend how pissed I was. He understood but it still happened a few times afterwards.

Now she's said to my faceish (via text) that she likes my friend more than me. I'm pissed off big time as he doesn't like her and just did it for fun.

I'm seriously pissed off now.

Me and James could head out your way on a meet with baseball bats if you want?