In need of advice

[James-Hilton]

You're only young once! Just enjoy playing the field! The car should help as well anyway!

 

[Dubz]

Ohh dear... Also last night she basically told me her heart and soul. Seriously confused! And hungover.

 

[James-Hilton]

2 nights in a row. Good effort mate!

 

[Gareth]

Has your mate got a sister?

 

[Dubz]

Has your mate got a sister?

Yes and that's not happening

 

[Gareth]

Y not?

 

[Mike_Robo]

ah man that sucks :/
I agree with the others on here though, I say forget about em and focus on someone else, as you never know whats around the corner, there may even be some girl thinking about you right now

 

[Dubz]

It's friday/saturday morning the usualy drunken rant will continue! Will edit properly later

ah man that sucks :/
I agree with the others on here though, I say forget about em and focus on someone else, as you never know whats around the corner, there may even be some girl thinking about you right now

I can't forget about her as now I've brought her into my life now she's friends with my friends and I can't move on. I know there's one girl that likes me but she's a good friend and if I did anything about it. It would remind me of my ex as they're very similar so I'm not going there.

Tonight she's going to a concert she doesn't want to go to with people she doesn't want to go with which just so happen to be two of my best mates. I love my mates but they piss me off sometimes and I really like this girl but Sometimes she seriously pisses me off.

Just what I need someone too mess with my head just before I take two years worth of exams in 4 weeks.

 

[Sam]

Best thing to do right now would be to go out and get sozzled. It worked for me!

But on a serious note, at least you told her how you felt and she has been honest with you. I would much rather know the truth about how someone feels about you before committing to any relationship, because if they don't like you enough or vicer versa then it will never work.

When I first started going out with my ex., well, we had liked each other for ages and there was chemistry between us. Then one time we were both out and I asked her out. We were going out for about 2 months but at times she would completely ignore me, or when she was drunk she could be quite offensive. Other times we would get on like a house on fire but I had to make the decision to end it because she didn't seem committed and this is also what her best friend told me. Sadly it's one of those cases where the relationship ruined our friendship as we no longer talk to each other.

It was a similar situation to yours cos it did mess with my head and had me feeling down quite a lot. The thing that helped me the most was the support of my friends (a couple of people on here know about it as well).

But when you're low you just gotta pick up the courage and get back on your feet and carry on.
If you still want this girl then you have to fight for her. Alright, she admitted she might like your friend more, but never give up without a fight mate.

 

[Moomin_Man]

This girl sounds like trouble. Messing with your head and making out with your mate? (if i picked that up right)
Sounds like a lot of girls i know. Messing with you for attention. Trying get a reaction.
I'd just get out of there while you can and work on forgetting about her. I liked a girl for years, and she liked me at one point, then she found out i liked her, and she just got with guys/friends infront of me to try get a reaction, then she would suddenly call me to come round. Messing with me. Took me a year to snap out of it and forget about her. Glad i did as shes now on housing benefits and coke...shes seriously gone down hill.

Not worh the trouble!